KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4