KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4