KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4