KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4