KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4