KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4