KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4