KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4