KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4