KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4