KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4