KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4