KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4