KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4