KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4