Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")


Rate the following activities:

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge
Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."
Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure
Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt
Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding
Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open
Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might
Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar
Being tied up so you can hardly move at all
Treating your partner like a pet
Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate
Being prevented from orgasming until you beg
Being gagged with an ordinary gag
Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin
Being treated like a child
Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals
Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time
Peeing on your partner
Being treated like a pet
Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object
Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin
Being spanked with a bare hand
Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe
Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time
Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner
Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times
Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show
Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"
Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed
Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you
Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you
Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt
Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury
Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury
Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."
Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe
Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed
Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might
Being handcuffed or having your hands tied
Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands
Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object
Observing someone undressing without their knowledge
Spanking your partner with a bare hand
Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar
Treating your partner like a child
Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand
Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all
Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating
Being peed on
Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin
Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness
Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness
Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner
Being made to wear and use a nappy
Making your partner wear and use a nappy
Forcing your partner to interact with faeces
Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show
Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure
Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere
Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin
Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals
Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg
Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere
Being forced to interact with faeces
Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate
Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"
Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag
Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise
Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise
Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding
Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times