Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")


Rate the following activities:

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg
Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand
Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar
Being gagged with an ordinary gag
Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness
Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury
Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin
Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."
Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time
Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open
Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure
Observing someone undressing without their knowledge
Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding
Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show
Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise
Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding
Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate
Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might
Being prevented from orgasming until you beg
Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals
Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you
Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you
Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury
Being tied up so you can hardly move at all
Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise
Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might
Being spanked with a bare hand
Forcing your partner to interact with faeces
Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure
Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar
Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object
Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed
Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times
Spanking your partner with a bare hand
Being treated like a child
Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner
Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin
Treating your partner like a child
Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin
Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner
Being forced to interact with faeces
Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate
Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere
Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt
Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag
Treating your partner like a pet
Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating
Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"
Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time
Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge
Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object
Being handcuffed or having your hands tied
Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed
Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all
Being treated like a pet
Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."
Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times
Being made to wear and use a nappy
Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt
Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe
Peeing on your partner
Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands
Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere
Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"
Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe
Being peed on
Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals
Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show
Making your partner wear and use a nappy
Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness
Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin