KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4