KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4