KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4