KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4