KinkTest

Questions

This is the main part of the KinkTest. You will be presented with 71 kinky activities and are asked to rate each one. Please read the following short explanation carefully.

The rating is a four-point scale ranging from 1 — you never want to do it, through to 4 — either you've tried this and really enjoyed it, or you really want to try it.

Answer 2 ("not my thing") if you'd do the activity but don't enjoy it as much as vanilla sex (or don't think you would). If it's something you like to do as a way to spice things up, as opposed to something you really love, then answer 3 ("enjoy")

Rate the following activities:

Pulling your partner's hair, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Being made to wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Putting pressure on your partner's neck, making it difficult but not impossible for them to breathe

1 2 3 4

Cutting your partner with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being peed on

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating as part of a sex show

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with an ordinary gag

1 2 3 4

Denying your partner any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Tying your partner up so they can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Being caused pain by your partner directly hitting or using implements on your genitals

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a room visible from the street, with the curtains open

1 2 3 4

Requiring your partner to avoid going to the toilet until they are desperate

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which you pretend to rape your partner

1 2 3 4

Being called demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Acting out a scene in which your partner pretends to rape you

1 2 3 4

Being forced to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Causing pain by directly hitting or using implements on your partner's genitals

1 2 3 4

Using a blade on your partner to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Being tied or cuffed to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Being required to avoid going to the toilet until you are desperate

1 2 3 4

Being restrained by your partner's body, for example being held down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Spanking your partner with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a pet

1 2 3 4

Having clamps or clothes pegs put on your nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Hitting your partner with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Being called names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Having a blade used on you to instil fear, without causing bleeding

1 2 3 4

Forcing your partner to interact with faeces

1 2 3 4

Being brought to orgasm, where your partner ceases stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Having your partner use needles or pins to penetrate your skin

1 2 3 4

Gagging your partner with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Being made to serve your partner (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being prevented from orgasming until you beg

1 2 3 4

Putting clamps or clothes pegs on your partner's nipples or elsewhere

1 2 3 4

Having nails dug into your buttocks, or having your back scratched by nails, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4

Being denied any form of sexual stimulation for a period of time

1 2 3 4

Being gagged with a ball gag, o-ring "gag" or similar

1 2 3 4

Peeing on your partner

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a pet

1 2 3 4

Being cut with a blade, causing bleeding but no serious or permanent injury

1 2 3 4

Being treated like a child

1 2 3 4

Bringing your partner to orgasm, but ceasing stimulation at the right moment to diminish the pleasure

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in front of other people at an orgy or as part of a show

1 2 3 4

Being pleasured until you can't handle it any more or being forced to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Using electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand, to stimulate your partner

1 2 3 4

Restraining your partner with your body, for example by holding them down on a bed

1 2 3 4

Being choked so that you cannot breathe, causing you to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner demeaning words like, "slut," "whore," "bitch," or "sissy."

1 2 3 4

Pleasuring your partner until they can't handle it any more or forcing them to orgasm many times

1 2 3 4

Overhearing someone having sex or masturbating

1 2 3 4

Calling your partner names that imply authority like "master," or "daddy"

1 2 3 4

Being tied up so you can hardly move at all

1 2 3 4

Having your hair pulled, hard enough to hurt

1 2 3 4

Tying or cuffing your partner to a bed or other object

1 2 3 4

Having pressure put on your neck, making it difficult but not impossible for you to breathe

1 2 3 4

Choking your partner so that they cannot breathe, causing them to feel faint or lose consciousness

1 2 3 4

Observing someone undressing without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Treating your partner like a child

1 2 3 4

Making your partner wear and use a nappy

1 2 3 4

Preventing your partner from orgasming until they beg

1 2 3 4

Being handcuffed or having your hands tied

1 2 3 4

Having sex or masturbating in a public place where people could come across you

1 2 3 4

Having your partner serve you (or pretend to), as a cleaner or retail worker might

1 2 3 4

Being stimulated by electricity, such as from a toy like the violet wand

1 2 3 4

Being hit with something like a crop, cane or whip, hard enough to bruise

1 2 3 4

Using needles or pins to penetrate your partner's skin

1 2 3 4

Observing someone having sex or masturbating in their own home, without their knowledge

1 2 3 4

Handcuffing your partner, or tying their hands

1 2 3 4

Being spanked with a bare hand

1 2 3 4

Digging your nails into your partner's buttocks, or using your nails to scratch at their back, causing pain without breaking skin

1 2 3 4